Sunday, November 15, 2015

The One in the mirror

How many times a day do you look at yourself in a mirror? But, do you really look at yourself? Do you really try to find that one in the mirror? Do you look through your image trying to find your higher self? How often do you really pay attention to the one you are looking at in the mirror?
When we truly look at the one in the mirror we can find our self, discover our fears, and confront our pain because we look beyond the image. We are looking to our soul looking deep in our eyes.
Paying attention to the one in the mirror can help us realize that even when we are busy, helping others, supporting others, putting others first, we have to make our self a priority in our life.

Sometimes we reach a certain point that makes us feel exhausted.  That moment we just feel emotionally, physically and mentally tired. We have tried to keep our self together but we are internally broken. Heartbreaks, deceptions, failures and hard times have destroyed our self-love.
It becomes hard to look at that one in the mirror. It becomes difficult to look in those eyes and confront that pain. However looking in the mirror to find the one into the mirror, to find yourself is necessary. Only when you dare to look at yourself and look beyond the image that everyone see, only than you are able to find yourself back.
It is important to find yourself back because you are the only one responsible for your own happiness. No one else is in charge or is responsible to make you happy. It is you, that one you are looking at in the mirror. Try to find out who you are, how you feel, what would make you feel happy. Try to find that strength in you, that beauty, that confidence and that love in you. If you can’t find the true in yourself, it will be an eternal search without result looking for it somewhere else. All the answers you need will arise from within.
Making yourself responsible for your happiness will allow you to enjoy your journey filling it with activities that makes you whole and satisfied. Don’t feel guilty for choosing you. By being happy and at peace, you can be a light and a blessing to others. You will be confident to share love and compassion.

When you look in the mirror make sure you are not just looking to an image. Make sure you are looking to your soul. Make sure you are smiling from within and make sure you are at peace with yourself.