The Perfect first love !

This is just a reminder how important it is ...

Many motivational speeches, books, films teaches us to love our self. This is definitely the most important thing to do. If we want to share love, help others empower others we have always to start with our self. No one is able to provide, or share something that they don’t have. If you want to be loved you have to give love in order to receive love. But if you want to give love you have to cultivate that love from within and the only way to do this is by loving yourself.

It sounds easy and somehow logical that someone is supposed to have self-love. Unfortunately people can be easily influenced by circumstances, disappointments, heartbreaks and this may lead that people will feel they are not worthy and lose that self-love. 

How to keep that unconditional love for yourself? 

Attitudes of happiness, joy and knowing what and who make our heart sing and embrace life will help us to love our self. When we suffer disappointments is the heart that suffers. To heal our heart we need to do forgiveness, prayers, meditation and release old hurts. Many times we are afraid to confront our self to avoid remembering moments of pain or deception but this is sometimes necessary.

We need to stop for a moment and accept our feelings so we can release that pain. What we do often is deny that feeling pretending that nothing is happening and that everything is fine but that pain is still living inside. This may block the energy of love that flows within. Unconsciously this may lead that we lose that love and kindness that makes who we are.

Love yourself by accepting and embrace who you are. Think positive about yourself; affirm your beauty, your potentials and abilities every single day. Don’t compare yourself to others instead enjoy your uniqueness because diversity is beautiful.

Take care of yourself, play with colors and spice up your life. Treat yourself like a royalty with your thoughts, physically and spiritually. You are a gift to the world; the most precious and perfect one. Be conscious about that and always love yourself.