That humble feeling we call LOVE ......

It is wonderful when the path of two people crosses each other and their feelings reach certain level that will concludes in the ultimate experience of love and ecstasy. That humble feeling that burns and sparkle impulsively out of your chest. That is a genuine feeling that the most people dreams about and wish to experience at least once in their life. But this feeling does not always culminate in a beautiful love story with a happy ending. How to react, how to accept this situation, how to overcome this pain and move on?

First of all it is important to be sure you did your outermost to make it work.  Love flows naturally and without anxiety and stress, but it is also fair to fight for what you want. Express your feelings; be real with yourself and the other person. This may help you to understand and own your feelings. Be conscious that your feelings are your responsibility. Don’t start claiming and demanding the same from the other person.

It is also important to be realistic and understand the limit and accept when someone doesn’t feel the same. That doesn’t mean you need to automatically stop having feelings for that person. But it becomes your responsibility to start the process of letting go and move on. Be aware of the limit! Don't cross the line between doing your outmost and losing yourself. 

Realize that it is not easy to clear your heart and thoughts. It is not easy to delete the experiences with that person from your life. It will be a process that needs time and proper healing.

Embrace the pain that you are feeling. Try to understand why you are hurt, why you are feeling that pain. When you understand why, it will be easy to accept and release. Give yourself time, but avoid putting yourself in the victim seat.

This is the perfect moment to believe in how amazing you are! Put yourself first and remember that you deserve the best. You deserve to be loved, you deserve happiness and joy, you deserve someone that loves the genuine person you are. Don’t claim that love and attention, know that you deserve it. If it is not given freely by the person you think you love, let it go and let it flow.

Enjoy the feeling of being in Love because it is part of your journey. Embrace the feeling no matter the situation your love is experiencing. But love yourself first that is the key! Trust your inner wisdom and keep loving !